I know it is frustrating fro you ... take a breath ...
|disabled google site|
If you site has been disabled and you GENUINELY have not violated the terms, simply click on the appeak form and fill it out, it takes seconds.
However, what follows then does not take seconds, it can take a while for your site to be reenabled.
If you have violated the terms .... sorry .... but tough luck.
Here is more info about diabled sites from my fellow TC Phil
If you have had your google site disabled and it has not been reenabled contact me direct with your website / google site address.
Bye for now :)